Table Of Contents:
A Noter from the Author xi
Consider It a Compliment xi
Acknowledgments xv
Introduction xxi
What About Us? xxi
No Sign of Life xxiii
The Challenge xxvi

A Toast to Your Differences 3(22)

An Evening to Remember 3(3)

A True Partnership 6(1)

The Never-Ending Journey 7(1)

Differences Cause Growth 8(2)

Accentuate the Positive 10(2)

Turn Your Differences into Compliments 12(3)

Why a Woman Falls in Love 15(2)

She's Worth Eight Cows 17(1)

A Father's Approval 18(7)

From Her Point of View 25(32)

Who Can Understand a Woman? 25(2)

What Do Women Want? 27(3)

There's No Comparison 30(2)

What a Difference a Friend Makes 32(2)

Prove Your Love 34(1)

Little Things Mean a Lot 35(6)

Pick It Out Yourself 41(2)

Say Something, Notice Everything 43(2)

The Five-Second Compliment 45(4)

One Week of Giving 49(3)

Verbalize Your Love 52(5)

Listen with all Your Heart 57(34)

Someone Talks, Someone Listens 57(2)

Courtship Conversation 59(2)

Why Did It Stop? 61(2)

Thirty Minutes a Day 63(2)

A Woman Is Like a Garden 65(3)

Your Shoulder, Not Your Mouth 68(5)

The Art of Listening 73(1)

The Past Is Over 73(2)

Don't Should On Me 75(3)

Nonverbal Clues 78(3)

You Thought I Meant It? 81(10)

Nothing more than Feelings 91(36)

Feelings Are Not Good Business 91(2)

Sticks and Stones 93(2)

Overcoming What You've Become 95(1)

Sharing Your Feelings 96(2)

Your Health Depends on It! 98(1)

What Else Is There? 99(3)

Your Unit of Worth 102(3)

Your Are Not What You Do 105(3)

Don't Apologize for a Feeling 108(2)

Don't Bring It Home 110(2)

Attack the Problem, Not the Person 112(5)

Conflict Is Necessary 117(4)

Take Care, Not Advantage 121(6)

Turn-Ons, Turn-Offs 127(36)

A Good, Hard Look at Yourself 127(1)

An Inward Journey 128(1)

Turning a Woman Off 129(1)

Indecisiveness 130(1)

Control 131(2)

Sabotage 133(1)

Jealousy 134(2)

Blaming and Complaining 136(2)

Self-Importance 138(2)

All Work and No Play 140(1)

Needing to Love 141(5)

Turning a Woman On 146(1)

Radiating Confidence 146(1)

A Sense of Humor 147(3)

Lean On Me 150(3)

Support 153(2)

In Touch with the Child Inside 155(1)

Childlike Behavior 156(7)

Romance Me 163(46)

It's Your Turn 163(2)

So You're Not Perfect 165(2)

Biology Versus Psychology 167(1)

Men Are Biological, Women Are Psychological 168(1)

Emotional Versus Physical 169(1)

Sex Is Giving 170(1)

Attention to Needs 171(3)

He's Visual---She's Verbal 174(1)

Love to Have Sex, Sex to Have Love 175(1)

Looking Forward to Something 176(3)

Reconnect and Be Free 179(2)

Take Me Away from All This! 181(2)

Grooming Habits 183(2)

Romance Means Touching 185(3)

An Intimate Way of Relating 188(2)

Fifty-one Ways to Keep Her Fire Lit 190(19)

The Imaginative Lover 209(22)

Pretending Has Its Rewards 210(4)

Confidential 214(1)

Be Her Fantasy 214(4)

Let Your Mind Escape Even When Your Body Can't 218(1)

Star in Your Own Created Role 219(4)

Moving into the Bedroom 223(3)

Where It's At 226(5)

Love Is 231(7)
Conclusion 238